A path of embodied leadership and conscious sensuality. Many doorways, one path. Step through where you are called.
We are living in a time of great change. Modern life asks us to move faster, achieve more, and show strength, while rarely offering space to simply be human.
Despite living in cities surrounded by millions, many of us feel loneliness, disconnection, the pressure to perform, and a quiet loss of meaning. Social media shows connection, yet we feel more alone than ever. Success is celebrated, yet many feel empty behind it.
House of Royal Hearts exists for the part of you that knows there is more. We cultivate embodied human leadership. the kind that begins in your own body, in your own truth, and only from there moves out into the world.
In our spaces, you are invited to drop the mask, feel deeply welcome, reconnect with what is real, strengthen presence and resilience, and remember the courage to live and lead from your authentic self.
"To be human, again."
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We are not waiting for the world to change. We are practicing the ways of being that the future asks of us.
Real human meeting, beyond the screen.
Returning to the body, the breath, the moment.
The courage to drop the mask and be unapologetically seen.
Rising together, holding what cannot be carried alone.
Three doors. Choose the one that meets you where you are.
You are curious, perhaps a little tentative. Begin with a single Royal Temple evening. One night. One held circle. Nothing more is asked of you than to show up.
You have walked through a temple, or you know this work and want depth. The Arc is six months with the same circle of around twenty-five people. Seven evenings, three phases, from September to February.
You are part of this circle. Retreats are the deepest container we hold. Multi-day immersions in the Conscious Castle, for those ready to soften and stay.
A temple is one evening. A single, complete ceremony of embodied leadership and conscious sensuality. Open to those crossing this threshold for the first time, and to those who have walked this ground before. Every temple holds both.
Whether tonight is your first crossing or your tenth, the room holds you. New travellers find the door held with care, explanation, and permission. Returning practitioners find deeper ground, stronger polarity, more advanced practice. One temple. Many depths. One held circle.
"Have you been waiting for a room like this without knowing you were waiting?"
Free to leave at any time. No experience needed. No nudity required.
See all upcoming dates in the calendar below, or reach out to reserve your place.
Every gathering, in one place. Royal Temple evenings, the Arc, retreats, and the festivals we hold space at. Each event is complete in itself and open to first-time travellers and returning practitioners alike, unless otherwise noted.
Weesp · A single held circle, open to all
3 seats leftWhere the Sheep Sleep · Four-day immersion in nature
Almost fullWeesp · A single held circle
8 seats leftWeesp · A single held circle
Open · 14 seatsWeesp · A single held circle
Open · 16 seatsWeesp · A single held circle
12 seats leftWeesp · A single held circle
Open · 18 seatsThe Arc begins · Cohort journey starts here
Cohort filling · 4 spotsConscious Castle · Four-day immersion
6 spots leftArc temple II · For the cohort
Cohort onlySovereign yes · Three-day immersion
Open · 12 spotsWeesp · A single held circle
Open · 20 seatsArc temple III · For the cohort
Cohort onlyArc temple IV · For the cohort
Cohort onlyWeesp · A single held circle
Open · 16 seatsConscious Castle · Cross the year together
Open · 14 spotsArc temple V · For the cohort
Cohort onlyThe threshold · Where the Arc completes
Featured · waitlistIn plain words: the Arc is six months with the same circle of around twenty-five people. Seven evenings, three phases, from September to February — held by the same team from start to finish.
Six months. One cohort. A path walked together from first breath to Ignition.
The Arc is something altogether different from a single temple. Where a temple is one complete evening, the Arc is one continuous transformation. held over six months, walked in a cohort of at least twenty-five, woven with community, integration, and the steady presence of those who hold you.
Seven temples, three phases, one threshold. From the first recognition in September to Ignition on the fourteenth of February.
The door opens. What has been held returns to the body.
What was felt becomes voice, movement, presence in the world.
The new ground holds. You are no longer who you were.
The first breath · The door that opens
The first real step · Desire that moves
The wild self awakens · Full erotic expression
The unknown as fertile ground · The charge named
The forbidden met · The shadow integrated
The edge crossed · Full sovereignty arrived
Nothing left to hide · House of Desires opens
You walk this with the same group from September through February. A circle of at least twenty-five travellers, large enough to carry real diversity and energy in the room, intimate enough that by the third temple, these are the faces who know the work you are doing. The cohort is fixed, but the door remains open. If the call comes mid-journey, you can still step in and we will help you find your footing.
The temple is one evening. The transformation is the month that follows. Each temple is paired with reflection prompts, audio practices, and a private digital companion to keep the thread alive in your daily life.
A private space, held off public platforms, where the cohort speaks between temples. Questions land here. So do the moments of awe, the doubts, the integrations. This is where the work becomes a shared life.
The same facilitators, space holders and hosts. You meet us at the first temple, and we meet you at every temple after, walking beside you every step of the way. Not rotating presences. Not new faces. The same hands holding the same circle.
For Royal Hearts, a private session at the midpoint of the journey. Where the work meets your specific life, relationship, leadership, the inheritance of your body, and where the next half of the Arc gets aimed at what matters most.
On the fourteenth of February, the Arc ends and House of Desires opens, in the same evening. Arc walkers cross that threshold first, by right. What you have built in six months is what walks through that door.
Two thresholds. Two atmospheres. Each chosen for what the work needs.
Weesp, the Netherlands
A church from around 1500, with stained glass and arched windows that hold the work in something larger than ourselves. This is where the Royal Temples and the Arc evenings unfold, on Friday nights, beneath light that has watched over five centuries of human longing.
Verlaine, Belgium
An old castle, restored as a sanctuary for embodied work. Forested grounds, fireplaces, rooms that hold silence and rooms that hold sound. This is where the multi-day retreats live, where there is space and time to fully arrive, to soften, to let the work do its slower, deeper turning.
For those ready to step out of daily life and into deeper ground. Multi-day immersions held in beautiful, sacred locations. Four distinct doorways.
A Temple is one evening. The Arc is a season. A Retreat is an immersion. Where temples crack you open and the Arc shapes you over months, a retreat lifts you out of your life entirely. Two to five days. No phones, no work, no roles. Only the practice, the room, and what comes through when you finally have the space to feel everything.
Leadership that begins in the body. Not strategy. Not performance. The capacity to live and lead from a centered, sovereign, fully embodied yes. For everyone, because every life asks us to lead something. Yourself first.
Embodied practice, somatic exercises, group ceremony, voice work, and integration in nature. Daily rhythm: morning practice, deep work midday, integration and rest in the evening. A held container from arrival to closing circle.
Founders, leaders, parents, partners. Anyone who senses that the next chapter of their life asks for more presence, more truth, more sovereign yes. No prior practice required.
The Arc unfolds over six months in your daily life. This retreat is a three-day vertical drop. Both are powerful. They serve different moments.
"Are you leading from your head and quietly feeling your body has been asking for the wheel?"
Includes full board, accommodation, all sessions, and aftercare. Payment plans available.
Reserve a Place →The full ground of erotic life. Several days of practice, ceremony, and held space, to meet desire fully and let what has been hidden become known. For those crossing into a new relationship with their own aliveness.
Erotic ceremony, breath and voice practices, partner-based work in carefully held containers, integration circles, and time in nature. The container deepens day by day. Every practice is invitational.
For those who have done some inner work and feel ready to meet their erotic nature directly. Singles and couples both welcome. No prior tantric experience required, but a comfort with vulnerability helps.
House of Desires is a single evening or weekend gathering with masks, performance, and play. This retreat is the slower, deeper, healing work that often precedes it. The retreat builds the ground; House of Desires dances on it.
Includes full board, accommodation, all ceremonies, and integration support. Every practice is invitational. Payment plans available.
Reserve a Place →A retreat for returning to the heart you have been guarding. Tenderness as ground. Softness as strength. The slow remembering that the heart was always meant to lead — and that an open heart is the most radical thing a person can carry in this world.
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Includes full board, accommodation, all sessions, and aftercare. Payment plans available.
Reserve a Place →A week on the island of Ko Phangan, far from your life. Jungle, ocean, full moon, and a held container that asks for nothing except your full presence. The deepest retreat we hold — for those ready to leave the world behind for long enough to find themselves on the other side.
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Includes accommodation, daily meals, all sessions, and ceremony. Flights and travel to Ko Phangan are separate. Payment plans available.
Reserve a Place →For when the work calls but travel doesn't. Group sessions held online, with solo practice at their core — for those exploring inner leadership and sexual awakening from wherever they are.
An Inquiry Circle is a digital group session held live online. You join from your own room, your own space — but you are not alone. The circle gathers, the prompts are held, and you do the inner work in a solo frame while others do the same alongside you. The privacy of solo practice, the depth of being held by a circle.
Live online sessions for meeting yourself as the leader of your own life. Where are you giving your power away? Where are you holding it back? What is the next step you keep avoiding? Solo inquiry, group container, held prompts.
Live online sessions for meeting your erotic self in private. The body work, the inquiry, the unbinding of shame — done alone, in your own space, with the circle holding you across the screen. Designed for the depth of solo practice with the safety of held witness.
Join from anywhere. All you need is a private space and a stable connection. Recordings of teaching segments are shared; live inquiry is never recorded.
We have not asked anyone to write about what happens here yet. Some things take time to put into words. Until they come, we will speak for ourselves.
We built this house because we could not find one like it.
Rooms where the body was welcomed and the mind was suspect. Rooms where the mind was welcomed and the body was suspect. Rooms where desire was performed, or rooms where desire was apologised for. None of them were home.
So we built one. A room where presence is the practice, where polarity is honoured, where the erotic and the sacred are not opposites but the same fire seen from different angles. A room where you arrive as you are, and what happens happens because you let it.
If you have been looking for this room, you have found it.
What I have learned holding this room is that everyone arrives a little frightened, and everyone arrives a little hungry.
The fear is not a problem. The hunger is not a problem. Both are honest. Both are welcome. What we offer is not a room where the fear disappears or the hunger is satisfied. We offer a room where both can finally be in the same body, at the same time, in the same breath.
You do not have to be ready. You only have to be willing.
— this is the room you have been looking for.
House of Royal Hearts is not held by four people. It is held by a circle.
The Heartcore opens the door. But the work is co-created, with every person who walks through it.
We believe each human carries a unique gift. A way of seeing, a way of being, a way of holding. The temple is not a stage with audience. It is a living room where every voice has a place, and every gift is part of the medicine.
When you join us, for a single temple, the Arc, or a retreat, you are not just attending. You are stepping into a circle that grows because of you. We help each other flourish. The teacher is the room.
Whatever you carry, voice, hands, stillness, fire, art, presence, has a place here.
A community of people choosing to live and lead with more presence, courage, and heart.
We rise together. The work is real when it touches your relationships, your work, your life.
If you carry something that wants to be shared in this space, a craft, a song, a way of holding, tell us. The circle has room.
The same faces, every temple. The same hands, holding the same circle. We walk beside you the whole way.
There is no hierarchy in this house. Each of us holds something different. None of us holds it alone.
The light, the held space, the faces of the work. Photographs of the rooms we have made.
The questions we are most often asked. If yours is not here, write to us.
You belong here. Most people who walk through our door have never done this kind of work before.
You do not need to be on a spiritual path. You do not need to have read certain books or done certain practices. You do not need to know what tantra means. You only need a willingness to feel what is real, and the courage to do that in a held space.
Every temple is designed to welcome the first-time traveller alongside the returning practitioner. The instructions are clear. The pace is gentle. Nothing surprising happens without preparation. You will be guided through every step, and you are always free to say no.
If you are nervous, that is the right feeling. Nervous means it matters.
A temple is approximately three to four hours. Here is the shape of an evening:
Arrival. You enter a beautiful space prepared for you. Candles, soft light, music. You are welcomed by name. You leave your shoes at the door and find a place in the circle.
Opening Circle. We begin with grounding, with breath, with a few words each. We set the intention together. The facilitators introduce themselves and the practices of the evening. Consent, choice, and pace are explained clearly. Questions are welcomed.
Practices. Through breath, voice, movement, gaze, and presence, we move together through guided exercises. Some practices you do alone, some with one other person, some with the whole room. Every practice is invitational. You can always sit out, pause, or leave the room.
Integration. We slow down. We rest. There is space for what arose to settle. We close the circle and step back into the world together.
There is no nudity required. There is no sexual contact. There is no pressure to do anything you do not choose to do.
Adults of any gender, orientation, relationship structure, or experience level who feel the call. You do not need to be on a spiritual path. You do not need previous practice. You only need a genuine willingness to meet what is alive in you, and the readiness to do that in the company of others doing the same.
Consent is the ground we stand on. Before any practice begins, you are oriented to the language and gestures of yes, no, and not now. Nothing is done to you. Every invitation is exactly that, an invitation. Saying no, leaving the room, sitting out a practice, are all honoured choices. The right to your own body is non-negotiable.
No. Most people come alone. Some come with a partner, some come with a friend. Whatever you choose is welcomed. If you arrive with a partner, you are not obligated to practice only with them. If you arrive alone, you are not obligated to practice with anyone at all.
Yes, and we want to be honest with you about exactly what that means, because every container holds a different intensity. Read this carefully.
Royal Temples (single evenings). Sexual energy is the heart of the work, the life force we are learning to feel, hold, and channel. You will move, breathe, voice sound, meet eyes, and feel the charge that lives in your own body. Dress code is comfortable clothing you can move in. There is a free flow portion of the evening where you may choose, with explicit consent, to undress to underwear and engage in conscious touch with another participant. No penetration. No sexual acts. You can opt out of any part of any practice at any moment, and many do. The work is the felt sense of aliveness, not performance.
The Arc (six-month cohort). The Arc goes deeper than a single temple. Across the six temples, you will work with desire, expression, polarity, and erotic embodiment in a held container with the same people. Like the temples, the practice happens in underwear during free flow, with no penetration. Because you walk this with the same cohort for six months, the depth of trust and erotic exploration available is significantly greater than in a single evening.
Retreats. Each retreat is different. The Embodied Leadership retreat works with presence and somatic practice, no sexual content. Heart Wide Open works with the heart — tenderness, healing, reconnection — no sexual content. Reclaim Your Eros does include deeper erotic practice in carefully held containers, with the same boundaries as the Arc: underwear, no penetration, full consent at every step. The Island Retreat in Ko Phangan is a deeper container that integrates the work over a full week. Each retreat description tells you exactly what to expect before you book.
House of Desires. A separate world, with its own consent threshold. House of Desires explores consensual erotic energy, polarity, play, and what unfolds between adults who have explicitly chosen to step further. Different boundaries apply there, and they are spelled out before any event.
If you are uncertain which container is right for you, write to us. We will tell you the truth.
Clothing you can move freely in and feel beautiful in. Comfortable, breathable, in colours and textures that feel like you. Many people choose loose layers, something soft to be in, something elegant to arrive in. Bare feet are welcomed in the temple space.
You do not need to dress sensually or revealingly. You do need to dress in something you actually want to be wearing, not something that hides you.
No. The temple is built on the opposite principle.
You will be invited to meet your edge, the place where what is alive in you wants to come forward but a part of you is unsure. The work happens at that edge, not past it. Crossing the line into your own truth is your choice, made in your own time, at your own pace.
The facilitators are trained to read the room, to slow when needed, to offer alternatives, and to respect the body's wisdom over any program. If you need to stop, sit out, leave the room, or simply observe, those are all honoured choices.
If you are uncertain whether this work is for you, begin with a single Royal Temple. One evening will tell you more than any description can. If you already feel the call and are ready for the deeper journey, the Arc is where the transformation lives. Many people walk one or two temples first and then choose the Arc.
House of Desires is the sister label of House of Royal Hearts.
Royal Hearts is the work. House of Desires is the world that work makes possible.
Here, the inner work becomes a living experience. A world of conscious sensuality, ceremonial gatherings, and masked celebrations where desires are unveiled, embodied, and brought to life.
It is not for everyone, nor is it meant to be.
For those who feel called, the journey begins on February 14, 2027, with Ignition.
Where desire becomes reality.
Life happens. Bodies change. Hearts shift. If you need to miss a temple during the Arc, we will hold space for your return. If you need to leave the journey entirely, we will honour that decision without judgement. This work is meant to serve your life, not the other way around.
Once a month, sometimes less, we send a quiet letter. Reflections, an upcoming temple date, a glimpse into the work as it unfolds. No noise. No pressure. Just a slow conversation, until you are ready.
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